about Ira
Ira Zezir was born Christi Anne Bela, is Neurodivergent, Polyamorous and recently came out as a Gender Queer person using they/them pronouns.
Since 2008, Ira has been a Tantra Teacher, Public Speaker, Modern Witch Doctor and Boundaries Expert.
They have come to understand the negative impact of shame on society and our relationships. It is their mission to provide trauma aware support and eradicate shame in our spiritual and sexual lives.
Overcoming shame is how we give ourselves permission to be vulnerable and authentic. They have living practice with multiple partners, bringing awareness to attachment styles, how to communicate with presence, speak from the heart and fully listening.
“I began to explore a fluid relationship to gender, sexuality, kink and pleasure at 16, before I even had those words. Tantra and BDSM has been a form of physical therapy for me that I consider and important part of processing.
I love sacred rituals, that is the essence of Tantra, to have reverence and honor the sacredness of all things. It all belongs! I have tried and studied it all; Wheel of Consent, Yoga, Kundalini, Breath Work, Tantra, Sound Healing, Chakras, BDSM, Body Work, Reiki, Thai Yoga Massage, Yoni Steam, Herbalism, Aromatherapy, Art Therapy, Astrology, Numerology and Gene Keys.
I aim to empower individuals and partners to explore their sexuality and grow as individuals.”
you are digging the holes you fall in? Disconnected and numb to feeling anything or anyone?
We are all here as the result of sex. If you are drowning in shame and scared to talk about it, you have disconnected from your sexuality and thus from what brings you alive. When we hit those rock bottom moments in life, it is a result of distancing ourselves from parts of ourselves.
In my own life, I found a way to break this cycle of separation from self, to break free from self-sabotaging habits and scarcity that reenforced my trauma, addictions overwhelmed reactions, anxiety, and depression.
I cracked the code and figured out how to put the pieces together in a sustainable way that makes life juicy and supportive.
We are in a relationship to everything! The foundation of work, romance, friends, etc. is your relationship with yourself. Are you ready to build a life you love?
MysticMag Interview
